Everyone has been through this question: O what to offer a friend or family member who has everything?
Maintaining a friendship brings health benefitsThat much we can conclude with certainty. But it also takes work. Like any relationship, it has to be nurtured, the space and time for the relationship has to be nurtured, just as it does for the individual, it has to be tolerant and for this particular search of ours we have to be attentive...
Did you know receiving and giving gifts triggers neurological responses beneficial and very interesting for our brains?
Let's dissect the topic of gifts for that "difficult" friend we all have, and try to find the ideal solution.
How is this friend characterised?
Usually the friend or family member who, for us, has everything, you'll certainly have pieces that you end up neglecting or putting on the back burner in your day-to-day life. Things she used to like, but is leaving behind. You're a person of priorities.
Naturally, these people are characterised by:
- Not being a born consumer
- Have a stable economic situation
- Values quality over quantity
- You prefer timeless pieces or minimalist design
- When you buy something, you select it based on its usability in your day-to-day life
- Value experience
The joy of receiving a gift
When we receive a gift, our brain releases dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin and endorphins.
Neurotransmitters that together are known as the happiness hormones.
The pleasure associated with receiving a gift is indisputable. It means being remembered and valued, and it has an influence on our self-esteem and well-being.
This pleasure is explained by science as: Reward system or nucleus accumbens.
In practice, methods of education and teaching are already based on the brain's Reward System.
How does the brain's Reward System work?
When it receives a stimulus, the brain will automatically seek a justification for the action.
If the stimulus is positive, the justification will be "I did something right".
If the stimulus is negative, the justification will be "I did something wrong".
In this way, positive stimulation has an impact on self-esteem and learning.
The secret to finding "that" gift
Ouça
Your friend is sure to say something you'd like to in your everyday conversations. These are unnoticeable hints that even he doesn't realise.
Por exemplo: “Emprestas-me uma caneta?” ou “Esta carteira está demasiado grande para colocar no bolso”
Olhe
Look at him. See what he doesn't have at home and what is strange not to have, given the person he knows.
For example: Your friend is very organised, but they don't have a notepad on their desk for quick, essential notes, or the scented candle that sets the mood as soon as they enter the house.
Or Your friend is always impeccably dressed, but doesn't have the standard collar stretchers on his shirt.
Sinta
Relationships are felt.
Feel what stage of life you're in and what can make a difference.
For example: Your friend is a father, at this stage all the presents are for the baby. Give the father a piece of jewellery with the initials of his son's name. In this way you respond to the focus of the friend's happiness, but with a symbolic gift.
When time is short and doubt persists, find a solution that excels in experience and certainty
gift card
A novelty that has returned to our shops. It offers freedom of choice and the guarantee of finding the perfect gift for each person.
Two value options to choose from: 100€ or 250€
Find it in any shop, whether online or in person.
Your friend can swap in any physical or online shop, regardless of where it was purchased.
The guarantee of the ideal gift and the Leitão & Irmão shopping experience.
HOW TO USE IT?
1. COMPRA
Buy the Gift Card in the online shop or in any of the physical shops.
In the online shop you will receive an email to download your Gift Card.
Or you can send it by email.
In the physical shop you will receive a physical card.
2. OFERTA
Give your Gift Card to someone special.
Or email the Gift Card from the online shop.
3. TROCA
In the shop, the giftee selects the item or items they want and pays with the Gift Card.
In the online shop, enter the Gift Card number at Check Out.
The purchase must be equal to or greater than the value of the Gift Card. If the value is higher, the excess value will be paid.